Iis iit really over?

As a guy, i dont think you are going about this right...if you still have feelings for him then TELL HIM lol dont have a friend call and say u want ur hoodie, dont act like u dont like him that will make it worse...maybe hes going through a rough time..i mean dont just go running back but you need to say look i still really like you a lot and i would like to get back together but i need to know why you were ignoring me and you didnt answer my calls..tell him you want the truth....but i think that if you tell him that you still really care and that you want to be with him instead of going around acting like you dont, then yes he will come back to you